Ugh yeah I saw so much about this in fandom I decided to give it a pass. And while I'm glad to have people I can bitch to about this IRL who will not react as your friend did, I also basically make sure to never ever get into these discussions with people before subtly probing their views (unless it's super important/I'll never see them again) because I don't want to have that kind of experience :( I'm sorry you did.
Also I am so saddened and unsurprised that the DH contains men and yet never sexualizes them in the same way.
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2009-11-13 16:23 (UTC)Also I am so saddened and unsurprised that the DH contains men and yet never sexualizes them in the same way.